When you have to choose between your child and your dog

Laura J. Murphy, MFA, MEd
8 min readApr 6, 2018

My daughter woke up this morning and told me she saw Flower (who has been gone for five months now). I smiled and remembered how they sat together to watch TV and Ally used to put tiaras and toys all over her while she slept.

Then, on the five-minute car ride to school, she mentioned her again,

“Is Flower better yet? I miss her so much mommy!”

The lump in my throat was hard to swallow. I was proud of her ability to sequence events and her use of language has progressed in strides, but…

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Laura J. Murphy, MFA, MEd

writer, educator, instructional designer, parent to a child with autism, advocate, disrupter, civil rights activist